Saw the ask on partner reaction to rape. I know it’s not really my place to tell anyone what to do but I still felt I need to share my 2¢ b/c I believe it’s important. I think the fundamental issue with such a question is it shifts the focus away from the victim to the partners. Recovery for every victim is different and depends entirely on what is deemed acceptable to the /victim/. While the partners will be important, it is ultimately not up them. So pls just consider this if/when you answer.