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We are posting today to let our wonderful bordello guests know about a rule change here at the Rosa in Fiore. We hope those of you directly affected by this change will read beyond the change to understand why we have made it, and will continue to support us.

As of this posting, we will no longer accept Jack the Ripper submissions, or any submissions that involve abusive scenarios. Any previously sent before this posting will run through the queue.

It is very important for us, as moderators, to maintain Dirty Assassin’s Creed Secrets as a safe place for people to explore their sexuality without judgement or shame. We are not making the change to the rules in an attempt to shame or judge our hybristophiles, which is how Jack the Ripper confessions are classified. This change in the rules is not an attack on you, your sexuality, or what makes your juices flow.

However, a safe place is a two-way street. We have received some feedback, in addition to the one we have shared above, from some of our viewers expressing discomfort with Jack the Ripper confessions. What Jack the Ripper did more than a century ago in Whitechapel was horrific and awful.

While we know those who write confessions about Jack are not thinking about how he carved up his victims, some of our readers, including one of us here amongst the moderators, are survivors of sexual abuse, physical abuse, emotional abuse and spousal abuse. Every time a confession involving Jack comes up, they think about what he did, how what happened in our own lives mirrors what Jack did.

For them, lustful confessions about Jack the Ripper being persuaded to not kill the confessor and bruises being worth it is not only discomforting, it is triggering.

When we, as moderators, try to balance out a safe place for our Jack the Ripper confessors and those negatively affected by the confessions, the scale weighs in favour of those adversely affected. Not sharing Jack the Ripper confessions hurts no one, while sharing them can actually cause upset or emotional trauma.

Again, we cannot emphasize enough that this is not a judgement against those of our confessors who lean toward hybristophilia. Nor do we think any of us here behind the curtain, or our guests, believe our hybristophiles want to cause emotional harm to our guests – and in fact, would be appalled to know they may have done so.

In the end, however, we’ve decided to elect to be on the more cautious side, and we hope that you, our patrons, will understand our decision.

For those whose confessions will no longer be posted, we say this: You are not alone in your desires. There’s a term for it, after all. In fact, here’s a link to a Tumblr group for hybristophiles. Read at your own risk. We are not partners with this blog.

As a final note, we ask that if you are going to comment on this post, whether in favour or against this decision, you remain respectful. Those who are in favour should not shame those who are affected by this decision.

Thank you,
The ladies and gent of Rosa in Fiore