We post birthday reminders three days before the character’s actual birthday to avoid people sending confessions on the day itself. Why? Because contrary to what you may think, I do not live in this bordello and I can only work on your confessions once a week (twice if I have more time on my hands).

I apologise if I sound testier than usual, but it frustrates me beyond belief when we get confessions about a character’s birthday on the day itself and I am compelled to work on them ASAP even when I do not simply have the time. This also applies to confessions about the submitter’s birthday. Please, please, please have the courtesy to send us your confessions days before your birthday if you want us to queue it in a timely manner.
TL;DR version: Any birthday-related confessions submitted on the day itself will be posted late. If you want us to post it on time, then please submit it at least 3 days before.
Grazie,
~ Signora Paola