‘I’m a woman of color with very broad, curvy hips and they’ve always been somewhat of a point of insecurity for me. So imagine my surprise when it turns out Malik loves them, especially when I’m lying on my side exhausted after a long day. Just as my eyelids start to droop, I feel a touch ghosting over my hip, tracing my curves. I reach up to pull Malik in, and my insecurities fade into the background for the rest of the night.’