This guide is going to be very simple, because I’m not going to go into dynamics – they’re different for everyone. I’m just going to teach you terms and give you different perspectives, so you can pick and choose your character better. This might also help a little if you’re actually interested in the lifestyle. I can’t go over rules, because all Dom/me’s are different and they’re going to have their OWN rules. I’m also not going to go over ALL kinks, you can find a great list here. Also keep in mind this is all written from MY point of view as a Dominant.
- Basic Terms. ( BDSM, SSC, RACK )
- Different types of Dom’s (Daddy Doms, Masters, Gorean, Saddists)
- Different types of submissives (Pets, slaves, kittens, babygirls)
- Limits – soft limits, hard limits, and why they need to be respected.