‘I’m very much a cuddly-top, and I imagine taking charge of a new-to-kink Jacob who’s playing it brave but secretly kind of nervous. After I coax him into admitting his nerves and the why of them, I hold him close and tell him that if I thought him unworthy of me he’d not have got within a mile of my bed. Once I’ve gotten him relaxed, I bind his wrists to the headboard and proceed to both drive him out of his mind with pleasure and lavish him with the praise and affection he’s starving for.’