There, there. Let the old seasoned Signora Paola offer you an advice: Read, and read a lot. I can tell you to go out there and have sex, but 1) It’s not something that should be forced, and 2) Experience may be the best teacher, but it’s another to actually read and see how the writers hone their craft and take notes. The internet is at your fingertips and I’m pretty sure Googling ‘writing erotica’ would give you a wealth of information!
Also, it’s quite unfair that fanfiction is looked down upon (and even ridiculed) by the mainstream, but just browsing Archive Of Our Own and looking for the best ones can really give you a feel on how writing smut should work. That’s how I personally got to it. I’m not saying that everyone should follow my lead, but reading fanfiction does help a lot!
I am sure our patrons can offer more advice, so they are very free to reblog this post and add their own. ♥️
Good luck and much love,
~ Signora Paola