I’m writing a ACU alternate universe and I plan to have some sex in it. And I’m terribly afraid. What I see in my mind, and what I want to write is so different, or just not SATISFYING enough you know? How do you describes da peen inside you know? How’s exactly good does it feel for the guy? Not a lot of haystacks I think are from guys PoV are they? Mostly girls and OMG I sometimes I’m too lazy and want it PG, if sex can be anything but… But then I really really want to see Arno all sexed 😘

It’s perfectly all right; I think every writer goes through this at some point! I once told Claudia how I found myself just staring into space and having to see what’s happening in my mind so clearly, but the words weren’t just coming out at all, and she told me that she experienced this, too!

One of the best advices I heard is from Anne Lamott: “Almost all good writing begins with terrible first efforts. You need to start somewhere. Start by getting something – anything – down on paper.” Simple, but very effective when the going gets tough.

So, please, don’t be afraid! Just keep writing. ♥️

~ Signora Paola

P.S. Well, technically, the Haystack was formed to cater to extended confessions so it makes sense that everything in it right now is in the POV of the confessor/writer. 😀